Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 11:18

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

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People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

No country for ugly people…

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

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